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May 01, 2006

Courage

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Last night at dinner with friends, the subject of courage arose in relation to a ropes course upon which our hostess unexpectedly found herself. Completely terrified, but encouraged by the man who held her emergency harness, she climbed, jumped and grabbed mid air for trapezes because she realized that such activities would ultimately be useful in developing courage She has come to the understanding that fear restricts her flow.

In contrast, as I was criticized yesterday for walking my bike up a steep incline filled with loose gravel, rather than riding through it, I had the fleeting thought that I was not going to break my hip to avoid wimphood. I am a wimp -- and I was trained to be one by a master. Developing courage has never even crossed my mind. That doesn't mean that I don't know it when I see it.

Stephen Colbert addressed the White House Correspondents' Dinner on Saturday. Now that was an act of courage. He spoke the truth directly to George W. Bush and his entourage, who wriggled two feet away.

The last time the royals had to sit through something like this was when they were shamed into attending Coretta Scott King's funeral. But, there, the keynote speakers had audience support. It is much more difficult to tell the truth surrounded by those who cannot face it, who find it narcissistically wounding, who punish.

Often the archetype of the clown, the trickster is the only one who dares speak the truth to power. Stephen Colbert did just that, and it was shocking. The Pres, quite the trickster himself, walked out right after Colbert's address with the Lovely Lapsed Liberal Laura in tow-- both looked miffed. Maybe because his own hilarious antics were trumped.

Colbert has been duly chastised by an almost universal shunning in the major media I'm certain there are those who would say that his remarks were in poor taste, if they deign to mention them at all. Oops, I take that back

Jon Stewart, another truth teller from Comedy Central, did much the same thing as a guest on Crossfire last year, when he confronted Paul Begala and Tucker Carlson and told them that what they were doing was bad for America, and asked them to cut it out.

Colbert's display of courage, though gutsy beyond belief, and difficult to deliver, did not have the same kind of consequences as telling the truth in a more overt dictatorship -- the kind of courage that was needed to stand up against Hitler, or Edi Amin or apartheid. The kind of courage that it takes to speak out when your life will be endangered if you do. We're not there quite yet, but to judge from the reactions yesterday, of both the President and the press, we're headed in that direction. .

Maybe if it comes to a life and death situation, I won't be quite such a wimp, but I doubt it.

Photo note: Too bad I cut off the thirty feet from where this guy is dangling to to ground -- it would have been a more dramatic shot, but who knew I'd be writing about courage when I took it. I thought I'd be writing about spring cleaning.

Addendum: Look whatt those clever guys on the internet did! Thank You Stephen Colbert.

Posted by Dakota at May 1, 2006 06:08 AM
Comments

Dear Dakota,
I am troubled by two things in your blog today: one, that someone would criticize your for how you ride your bike, and two, that you consider yourself to be a person without courage.
The first bothers me because the very fact that one rides a bike takes courage, and being discriminating about where and when one will ride or walk has nothing to do with a lack of courage, but rather shows very good judgment, increasing the likelihood that one will ride many more happy miles. I myself am highly risk averse, and whatever activities I do, I am always looking for ways to do them that minimize the chance that I will be badly hurt. I do not consider myself to be lacking in courage because of this, even though others may choose to do things that are far more danger-filled.
The second thing that bothers me is because I happen to know you a bit, in the corporal plane as well as in the ether realm. And I know that you are, without the shadow of a doubt, a person of enormous courage and also of enormous grace and goodness of heart. Courage can involve running into a burning building, or leaping for a trapeze, but it is also embodied in using oneself as a shield to protect others...friends, children, partners...from hurtful and toxic influences to which we ourselves have been exposed. Spending a life transforming hurt into healing, bleakness into love, are acts of extreme courage.
And beyond these things, how many of us would have either the perseverance or the courage (or the talent!)to write such a wonderful blog, day after day?
Yours in courage and humility,
Mrs. W

Posted by: Mrs. W at May 2, 2006 08:42 AM

Dear Mrs. W. --

Now I know I'm a wimp, because you made me cry.

Thank you for reframing this issue so lovingly.
I am most grateful for your unfailing friendship and your delicious dinners. xo D

Posted by: Dakota at May 3, 2006 11:07 AM